30th Anniversary Edition Updated with new insights from the next generation You can stop fighting with your children! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children�and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this thirtieth-anniversary edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based on feedback they�ve received over the years. Their methods of communication�illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action�offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You�ll learn how to: * Cope with your child�s negative feelings�frustration, disappointment, anger, etc. * Express your anger without being hurtful * Engage your child�s willing cooperation * Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill * Use alternatives to punishment * Resolve family conflicts peacefully